Talk with Your Student

Here are some topics for families and parents to discuss with your student to help guide them through the college journey.

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Summer Conversations

Alcohol/Drug Use/Sexual Violence/Consent/Safety: 

College is an amazing experience, with lots of opportunities for success, growth, and fun! However, there are also points of challenge and more serious instances that are important to talk to your student about before they arrive on campus. For more serious conversations with your student, please visit the Student Affairs Conversation Guide. This guide was created by Marquette staff to help inform discussions with your student on heavier topics that will prepare them for all college experiences. 

Questions to Consider: How will your student’s attitude around drugs and alcohol be? Does your student know what resources are available on campus for advocacy and wellness? What safety measures will you discuss with your student, especially if they are new to city life and Milwaukee? 

Physical Illness and Injury/Mental Health: 

Learn more about the valuable information and guidance you can provide to your student as they learn to handle their own health care and needs. Be sure to check out the For Parents Page on the Marquette Medical Clinic website for conversations to have with your student. Also, the Counseling Center is an important resource for your students to know about on campus, especially when you 

Questions to Consider: Does your student plan to use the Marquette Clinic or a family care provider for their medical needs? Where will your student go to seek help for their mental health? Are there things you can do to support their mental health? 

Budgeting/Spending Money: 

Budgeting and spending are important to discuss with your student to set clear expectations. For more information, Marquette Central has all the resources you need to ensure you know key next steps and important deadlines for a successful college journey. You also have the option to book an appointment with any of the offices within Marquette Central for more clarification and personalized guidance 

If your student is looking for employment opportunities, direct them to the Student Employment Services for more resources. 

Questions to Consider: Does your student know how to budget and plan on doing so? Will you give your student money for specific activities or needs? If so, how much? Is it expected for your student to get a job while at Marquette? If so, have they thought about what kind of job and the hours they will be working while balancing school? 

Communication:  

One important talk to have with your student is about communication. Think about and discuss your expectations for them and learn about their expectations for you regarding contact and communication when they begin their college experience.  

Questions to Consider: What expectations do you have for communicating with your student? How often will you communicate with your student (daily, weekly, monthly)? After dropping off your student, when do they plan to see you again during semester?

Faith/Practice: 

Campus Ministry serves all students on their journeys of faith, not just Catholic students! Check their website for upcoming events, programs and spiritual offerings. 

Questions to Consider: Talk to your student about their faith and how/if they will represent it while at Marquette. Will your student participate in religious services? Will your student have a routine basis revolved around their faith? 

Courses and Academic Guidance:

In preparation for SPARK@Home, talk to your student about completing the SPARK@Home New Student Checklist, which they need to do in order to register for fall courses. They will meet with their colleges and be introduced to the Marquette Core Curriculum, the center of every Marquette student’s educational experience. Encourage your student to talk to professors, reach out to Academic Support Services, and utilize the Norman H. Ott Memorial Writing Center along with other opportunities that will help them succeed academically.   

COVID Resources: 

Please Visit Marquette's Coronavirus webpage for the most up-to-date resources and information from the university. For Milwaukee COVID-19 information, visit the Milwaukee Coronavirus Website.

Conversaciones para el verano

Alcohol/Drogas/Violencia Sexual/Consentimiento/Seguridad:

Ir a la universidad es una experiencia increíble, con muchas oportunidades de éxito, crecimiento y diversión. Sin embargo, también hay puntos de desafío y casos más serios de los que es importante hablar con su estudiante antes de que llegue al campus. Para conversaciones más serias con su estudiante, por favor visite la Guía de Conversación de Asuntos Estudiantiles (en inglés). Esta guía fue creada por el personal de Marquette para ayudar a informar las conversaciones con su estudiante sobre temas más pesados que los prepararán para todas las experiencias universitarias.

Preguntas para considerar: ¿Cómo será la actitud de su estudiante sobre las drogas y el alcohol? ¿Sabe su estudiante qué recursos están disponibles en el campus para el apoyo y el bienestar? ¿Qué medidas de seguridad recomendará a su estudiante, especialmente si no ha vivido en una ciudad grande antes o no conoce Milwaukee?

Enfermedades y lesiones físicas/salud mental:

Aprenda más sobre la valiosa información y orientación que Ud. puede proporcionar a su estudiante mientras aprende a manejar su propio cuidado y necesidades de salud. Asegúrese de consultar la página "Para los padres" (en inglés) en el sitio web de la Clínica Médica de Marquette (enlace en inglés) para tener conversaciones con su estudiante. Además, el Centro de Consejería (enlace en inglés) es un recurso importante que los estudiantes deben conocer en el campus.

Preguntas para considerar: ¿Su estudiante planea utilizar la Clínica Médica de Marquette o un proveedor de atención familiar para sus necesidades médicas? ¿A dónde acudirá su estudiante para buscar ayuda para su salud mental? ¿Hay algo que puede hacer Ud. para apoyar la salud mental de su estudiante?

Presupuesto/Gastos:

Es importante hablar sobre el presupuesto y los gastos con su estudiante para establecer expectativas claras. Para más información, Marquette Central tiene todos los recursos que necesita para asegurarse de que conoce los próximos pasos clave y los plazos importantes para una experienca universitaria exitosa. También tiene la opción de reservar una cita con cualquiera de las oficinas de Marquette Central para hacer preguntas y recibir una orientación personalizada. Hay personal que habla español.   

Si su estudiante está buscando oportunidades de empleo, diríjalo a los Servicios de Empleo para Estudiantes (enlace en inglés) para más información.

Preguntas para considerar: ¿Sabe su estudiante hacer un presupuesto y planea hacerlo? ¿Le dará a su estudiante dinero para actividades o necesidades específicas? Si es así, ¿cuánto? ¿Se espera que su estudiante consiga un trabajo durante su tiempo en Marquette? Si es así, ¿ha pensado en qué tipo de trabajo y en las horas que trabajará mientras sigue enfocado en los estudios?

Comunicación: 

Una conversación importante que debe tener con su estudiante es sobre la comunicación. Piense y hable sobre sus expectativas para él/ella y aprende sobre sus expectativas para Ud. en cuanto al contacto y la comunicación cuando comience su experiencia universitaria. 

Preguntas para considerar: ¿Qué expectativas tiene en cuanto a la comunicación con su estudiante? ¿Con qué frecuencia se comunicará con su estudiante (diariamente, semanalmente, mensualmente)? Después de dejar a su estudiante, ¿cuándo planea volver a verlo durante el semestre?

Fe/Espiritualidad:

La Pastoral Universitaria sirve a todos los estudiantes en su camino de fe, ¡no sólo a los estudiantes católicos! Consulte su página web para conocer los próximos eventos, programas y actividades espirituales.

Preguntas para considerar: Hable con su estudiante sobre su fe y cómo/si la representará mientras esté en Marquette. ¿Participará su estudiante en los cultos religiosos? ¿Tendrá su estudiante una rutina basada en su fe?

Cursos y orientación académica:

Durante SPARK en Casa, su estudiante aprendió sobre el Currículo Central de Marquette (vea un video con subtítulos en español disponsibles), el centro de la experiencia educativa de cada estudiante de Marquette. Anime a su estudiante a hablar con los profesores, conectarse con los Servicios de Apoyo Académico, y utilizar el Centro de Escritura Norman H. Ott Memorial (enlace en inglés), junto con otras oportunidades que le ayudarán a tener éxito académico.  

Recursos relacionados a COVID:

Por favor, visite la página web de Marquette sobre el Coronavirus (enlace en inglés) para los recursos y la información más actualizada de la universidad. Para información sobre el COVID-19 de Milwaukee, visite la página web del Coronavirus de Milwaukee.

August 2022

A time of transition – for the student and parent 

During the first year, and throughout college, students will move between being out in a world that’s exciting and also needing to know their parents and families will always support them. Some students will thrive immediately; others will need more time to get comfortable. No matter the pace, the next four years are an important transition to independent adulthood.

It’s also an important milestone for parents and families, transitioning from provider and protector to mentor and confidant. 

Stay in touch – visit during Family Weekend! 

Marquette encourages families to stay in touch with their students and send care packages to celebrate their successes while also encouraging them to take advantage of university resources when they are struggling. 

First-year students living on campus are encouraged to stay at Marquette on weekends during the first semester as much as possible. It is a crucial time to make new friends, adjust to new academic expectations and get involved outside the classroom.  

Family Weekend is September 23-25, 2022! Updates and additional information will come in early September.  Visit the website to learn more about the events offered on or off campus. Also, consider just joining your student for a tour of campus or a dinner downtown.

Living arrangements 

All first-year students living in a residence hall are asked to complete a roommate agreement, including how roommates will navigate different expectations and living styles. Most new students find their living arrangements work if they are open-minded and communicate with one another.  

Tuition and bills 

Students receive notices about tuition to their Marquette email accounts. If parents want to receive these notices, they must have their student register a parent’s email for guest access through their CheckMarq account. This also provides access to bursar accounts, e-bills and 1098Ts. 

September 2022

Reminder visit during Family Weekend! 

Family Weekend is September 23-25, 2022! Visit the website to learn more about the events offered on and off campus. Also, consider just joining your student and having them show you around campus and sharing a meal together!

Off-campus and university apartments 

The University Apartments has put together resources for parents and families as their students begin navigating the search process for off-campus and university apartments. The University Apartment selection process will begin in mid-late October, and tours of vacant apartments will begin starting on Family Weekend. 

Information can be found on our website.

October 2022

Midterm/Fall Break

The October 20 to 21 midterm break provides an opportunity to reconnect with your student. Some students experience homesickness, and it is normal for students to miss their families and friends back home. But if a student’s homesickness is interfering with daily life, encourage them to seek support by talking to a resident assistant, visiting Campus Ministry and/or stopping by the Counseling Center. The entire Academic Calendar is also online. 

Off-campus and university apartments 

The University Apartments has put together resources for parents and families as their students begin navigating the search process for off-campus and university apartments. The University Apartment selection process will begin in mid-late October, and tours of vacant apartments will begin starting on Family Weekend. 

Information can be found on our website.

Fall means FAFSA

The Free Application for Federal Student Aid (FAFSA) for the 2023-2024 academic year will be available online Saturday, Oct. 1. 

Students must complete and submit their FAFSA by Sunday, Jan. 15, to meet the Wednesday, Feb. 1, priority deadline to be considered for maximum financial assistance for the upcoming school year.  

The Office of Student Financial Aid will send any requests for additional documentation to students’ Marquette email addresses. Students will have 30 days to complete this request to ensure timely processing and full consideration for financial assistance. Missing documents can also be viewed on the to-do list under the Financial Aid tile on CheckMarq. 

For more information, review the Step by Step Guide to Applying for Financial Aid along with these key steps for applying for financial aid.  

Questions can be directed to Marquette Central.

November 2022

Registration appointment time 

In mid-November, after advising, students register for classes. Registration appointments for undergraduate students are assigned by total number of credits. This process allows students who are closest to completing their degree – and have less opportunity to take certain classes – to have earlier appointments. Marquette Central has a wonderful resource for students on the How Do I…? website. 

Staying healthy 

As cold and flu season beings, students may get sick for the first time away from home. The Marquette University Medical Clinic offers a wide range of resources to care for sick students. 

Encourage balance 

This is a great time to encourage your student to maintain a balanced life – fitting in exercise and a healthy diet with academics and a social life. This is equally important for a student who is worried about grades or one spending too little time in the library. Students have free access to the Rec Center and Rec Plex on campus.  

University Apartment Information 

The University Apartments has put together resources for parents and families as their students begin navigating the search process for off-campus and university apartments. Information can be found on our website here: https://www.marquette.edu/residence-life/apartments-information-for-parents.php 

Our University Apartment Selection process is currently underway, and more information can be found here: https://www.marquette.edu/residence-life/apartments-selection-process.php 

December 2022

Final Exams and Grades

The end of the semester is quickly approaching which means students are extremely busy preparing for final exams, papers and projects. During this stressful time, students should be encouraged to seek balance in work and play and take care of themselves. This is an ideal time to send words of reassurance, a care package or a gift certificate to enjoy a meal out.  
 
Grades are posted in students’ CheckMarq accounts the week after finals. Inevitably, some students may not do as well as they had hoped. Take time to discuss with your student what he or she hopes or plans to do differently in the future and encourage them to take advantage of academic support services. More information about guest access on Checkmarq is available online

A time for reflection and fun  

Winter break is an ideal time for families and students to reflect on the semester, especially after students have caught up on sleep and reconnected with family and friends. Families should take time to ask students about their favorite class, favorite Milwaukee restaurant, most challenging professor and new friends. It’s also a good time to encourage students to develop in their faith or spirituality and ask if they have considered taking advantage of the many faith-based resources offered for students of all backgrounds on campus.  

When your student is home during winter break make sure to spend time doing fun activities. It doesn't necessarily have to be a big trip but rather a time for simple things that your student might have enjoyed prior to college. Collegiateparent.com also offers some great things to think about over the break including Setting House Rules

Away from home, students are learning to make independent and responsible decisions as an adult. Take some time to review this booklet from the Division of Student Affairs, to help guide conversations.  Enjoy time and take pride in the growth they have achieved. 

Apply to be an RA

Every year the Office of Residence Life works to recruit students to serve in the Resident Assistant (RA) role. These individuals serve as a leader amongst their peers, a resource within the living community and work to create an inclusive and safe community on campus. We are currently looking for Resident Assistants (RAs) for the 2023-2024 academic year. Applications are due Tuesday, December 20, 2022. All information can be found on our website: https://www.marquette.edu/.../student-staff-positions-ra.php 

Students who have been previous camp counselors, peer mentors, or held other peer leadership roles have the types of experiences we are seeking. RAs receive paid housing, meal plan, and a stipend payment. Students are welcome to email ORLjobs@marquette.edu with any questions.

Spring Engagement Opportunities for Students

Sorority Life

Marquette’s Panhellenic Sorority Recruitment Registration is open! Sorority Greek Life at Marquette focuses on building long-lasting bonds through sisterhood and service. Marquette has 6 social sororities and 1 affiliate chapter on campus that focus on philanthropic service that directly impacts the Milwaukee Community. Check out the different chapters here. If your daughter is interested in recruitment, please have her sign up here.

SPARK & Orientation Leaders

Students can develop their leadership skills and help welcome the Class of 2026 next June as a SPARK Leader and next August as an Orientation Leader!  These positions provide students an opportunity to connect with other student leaders through spring trainings and teambuilding. These positions also introduce students in many campus resources and leadership development programs. Information will be posted on the New Student and Family Programs Website shortly after students return for the Spring Semester.

Join a Student Organization

Many student organizations look for new members at the start of the Spring Semester. If you are interested in joining, check out the website for more information. You can also visit MARQUEE, the home for Marquette’s student organizations.